Life Hacks from TikTok's "Duchess of Decorum" Pattie Ehsaei

Pattie Ehsaei, Tik Tok Sensation

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Release Date

Friday, October 1, 2021


Known as the "The Duchess of Decorum" by her loyal 400,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei (TikTok: “duchessofdecorum”), has established herself as the expert of “P’s and Q’s” on the platform where she has received over 1.8 MILLION likes and nearly a half million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she’s the perfect example of “tough but fair" and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. 

Born in Iran, the Persian beauty moved to Los Angeles as a youth and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. From relationship management, business development, investment banking, and raising capital from sovereign wealth funds in private equity, Pattie has seen all sides of the industry.

Within the past year, she created her TikTok account as a way to provide education, advice, and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings and more. Her direct approach peppered with levity and some real takeaway, has made her an instant success! Pattie's account grew to 400,000 followers in less than six months and has become appointment television for her growing audience. “How do I make and keep a budget?” What is this little fork for?” “How much should I spend for a car?” “How do I ask for a raise?” These are the type of questions that Pattie provides real and honest answers to, that keep her fans begging for more.

Duchess of Decorum Pattie Ehsaei

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